Born August 17, 1936 in Worcester, Massachusetts, Hope spent her childhood years in Litchfield, Connecticut, the second oldest of four children born to Henry Baldwin Nichols and Esther Shears Nichols. Her father was a West Point graduate with a lifelong military connection and demanding career, her mother an affectionate presence anchoring the children’s everyday lives. Her maternal grandparents gave Hope and her siblings lasting memories of Hyde Park, New York, where her grandfather, Herbert Shears, was superintendent of Frederick Vanderbilt’s Hudson River estate. Hope would later donate several Vanderbilt-related items gifted her as a young woman to the Vanderbilt Mansion, a place she loved to visit with her own children, siblings, and grandchildren.

In her late teens, Hope attended Mills College in California for one year, finishing her studies at the University of New Hampshire after the sudden passing of her mother, a loss that impacted her greatly. Marrying New Hampshire resident John Zanes, Hope would have three children, Daniel, Julia, and Warren. While the family was living in Fredericton, New Brunswick, Canada, she discovered fine art photography, which would become a lifelong passion and practice.

After divorcing, Hope moved with her children to Concord, New Hampshire, where her younger brother, Henry Baldwin Nichols, Jr. was then living.

Concord was Hope’s home for the next fifty-five years. There, when her children were still young, Hope worked at Barbara Antonson’s Spruce Tree Nursery School, forging friendships that would last for many years. Her children attended Concord schools for most of their school-age lives, all finishing secondary school at esteemed out-of-state private institutions, done with their mother’s active encouragement. Concord would, however, remain a home to all.

Later, over a period of thirty years, Hope, alongside husband Harrison Butterworth of Hopkinton, worked to make Concord’s Friendly Kitchen a place that could regularly provide hot meals to an ever-greater number of those in need. Introduced to the organization through their church, St. John’s in Dunbarton, the Butterworths helped build The Friendly Kitchen into the community presence it is today.

As a photographer, Hope leaves behind an influential body of work and students who regularly cite her generous teaching style as crucial to their own artistic development. Mentored by friend and renowned photographer Lotte Jacobi, Hope showed her gum prints at the Currier Museum of Art in Manchester, among other places. A Boston Globe review of that Currier exhibition described Hope as “an extraordinary artist.”

A gardener, a great lover of animals, a devoted swimmer, a regular at area thrift shops, an artist and a beloved fixture on Stickney Hill Road, where she could often be seen walking her dogs, Hope was a friend to many. Doing things her own way, she kept bees, practiced photographic techniques from the late 19th century, raised quails, and stored up fireworks for her grandchildren’s visits. She leaves behind her three children, all of whom work in the arts, her two sisters, Julia Cook ’51 and Leslie Kremer ’55, Harrison Butterworth’s four children, Carol Burnham, Stephen Butterworth, Molly Elmali, and Corwin Butterworth, her grandchildren, Anna Zanes, Isak Saaf, Olaf Saaf, Lucian Zanes, Piero Zanes, Samantha Burnham, Amanda Burnham, Sadie Butterworth, Sam Butterworth, Mirabelle Butterworth, Abra Brown, Deniz Elmali, Dilara Elmali, Derya Elmali, and many more friends and family who will miss her ready humor, her keen eye, her singular style, and her infectious spirit.

Hope passed on Mother’s Day, May 12th, 2024, with her children close to her as she succumbed to the effects of pneumonia. A memorial event is planned for July 13th, 2pm, to be held at St. Paul’s Church, 21 Centre St., Concord NH 03301. It will be open to any and all who want to celebrate a great daughter, sibling, mother, grandmother, artist and friend who will be remembered as a unique, shining presence in the community.

Rita Zuckerwar Ross, 103, of Delray Beach, Florida, and longtime resident of Gloversville, New York, passed away at home on August 24, 2024. Rita was born on June 24, 1921, in Gloversville, the daughter of Jacob A. Zuckerwar and Marguerite Zuckerwar.
Bud Ross, her husband of seventy-six years, died in 2021. She is survived by her children Joan Ross of New York City and Roger Ross (Jennifer) of Folsom, California; her four grandchildren Cameron Ross (Malia) of Livermore, California; Sebastian Ross (Chelsea) of Sacramento, California; Giselle Ross of Cameron Park, California; and Lindsey McGaughran (Matthew) of Acushnet, Massachusetts. She is also survived by two great-grandchildren, Sivan Ross and Silas Ross of Livermore.
Her daughter Marguerite “Meg” Ross Wass preceded her in death.

Linda Gale Ivey (née Bauer), 78, of Malvern, PA, and formerly of St. Davids, PA, peacefully departed this life on December 31, 2024. The daughter of the late LeRoy John Bauer and Dorothy Rose Perham, Linda was born on September 1, 1946 in Easthampton, MA. There she attended Williston, The Northampton School for Girls and subsequently graduated from Carnegie Mellon University and Widener University Delaware Law School.

Linda was a dynamic woman with many talents and interests that developed into jobs, hobbies, and volunteer positions. She had an insatiable thirst for literature and the arts, and consistently found ways to further her education. She was an avid reader, music lover, and gardener. Linda was also an extremely strong athlete who loved skiing, swimming, paddle, and tennis. During and after college, she was a top model for The Wilhelmina Agency. Linda graced the pages and covers of renowned publications such as People, Vogue, and Esquire; and accepted assignments that afforded her many opportunities to travel internationally. Linda was a certified cruise director, travel agent, member of the PA Bar Association, and treasurer for the Philadelphia Chapter of the Blue Star Mothers of America. Additionally and among many other things, Linda was a skilled seamstress, motorcyclist, and calligrapher.

Linda is survived by her beloved children, Meredith C. Lockhart and Tucker Ivey (Alana); her brother, LeRoy Bauer ’72; and her cherished grandchildren, Leah and Jackson Lockhart, and Maeve Ivey.

Longtime Killington resident and avid skier Judy O. Findeisen passed away on January 22nd, 2025, at the age of 92.

Born October 13th, 1932, in Newport, Rhode Island, Judy was the oldest of Dorothy and Arnold Openshaw’s three children. She grew up in Springfield, Massachusetts, swimming, horseback riding and skiing. It was while attending St. Lawrence University that she met and fell in love with Walter T.C. Findeisen. They were married July 8th, 1953, in Coronado, California.

In 1960, having moved from California to Long Island, New York, Judy and Walt purchased property in Killington, Vermont. In early 1962, with their two young sons and a dog, they moved to Vermont, living in a tent from early May until mid-October. By day, Judy worked in the Killington ski shop, while Walt was working trail crew. Nights and weekends were devoted to building a home. A year later they welcomed their daughter, Tami, into the new house in the woods.

Six short years later they were at it again, building and then operating Timbers Lodge. Judy ran the lodge including breakfast and dinner for the guests.

In addition to raising her family, Judy held many different jobs, including retail sales, school bus driver, bank teller, and vacation lodge owner/manager, chef, and housekeeper.

In 1976 Judy began her career in Real Estate working alongside her husband Walt at Martin Associates Mountain Real Estate in Killington, retiring in 2020.

Judy was very active in the small but growing Killington community. She was one of the founding members of the Sherburne Women’s Club and the Sherburne Co-operative Nursery School.

She was an active member of the Killington Ski Club – helping to start what is now the annual ski sale. She was elected as Justice of the Peace in 1987 and served through 2010.

Later she enjoyed traveling with Walt and friends and was an active member of the Rutland Garden Club.

Judy is survived by her son Walter (Miriam), son Jeff (Kim), daughter Tami, grandchildren Courtney (Nate), Marc, and Sarah, and great-grandson Parker. She is also survived by her sister Lass ’56 and sisters-in-law, Babs, Ginny, Janice, Pam, and many nieces, nephews.

She was pre-deceased by her husband Walt, her brother Jim and brothers-in-law John and Charlie.

In leu of flowers please consider donating to the Shriners Hospital for Children, the Wounded Warriors Foundation or a charity of your choice.

There are no services at this time.

Wendy Butler Walsh, 80, of Agawam, MA, recently of Northampton, and formerly of Madison, CT, peacefully passed away on February 22, 2025, surrounded by family. Wendy was born at Cooley Dickinson Hospital in Northampton on September 22, 1944, daughter of the late John Parker and Alice Remington (Remi) Butler.

Wendy graduated from Northampton School for Girls in 1962 and then attended the University of Massachusetts, where she received a Bachelors in English. She continued her education at Southern Connecticut State University, receiving a Masters in Education.

Wendy was a paraprofessional at Daniel Hand High School in Madison for many years. She was loved by her students not only for her excellent tutoring skills, but for her kindness, patience, and constant support, particularly in the areas of English and Math. During summers and after retiring from Daniel Hand, Wendy could often be found tutoring students privately at her dining room table.

As a girl Wendy spent summers at the family beach house on Long Island Sound in Madison. She loved the ocean and developed her life-long love of swimming there. She could outlast anybody swimming long distances. In the mid-1970s Wendy began her 40-year residence on the Shoreline. She played tennis in multiple competitive groups, both singles and doubles. She was only 5 foot 2, but she had a heck of a serve! Her love of poetry was legendary. No book in her library was more worn and tattered than a collection of Emily Dickinson poems. She had eclectic taste in music, from James Taylor to Aaron Copland. Wendy also spent time gardening and doing yoga. She was bright, loving, thoughtful, empathic, quirky, original, hilariously funny, and impossible not to adore.

Wendy returned to Northampton about 10 years ago, where she could often be found with a tennis racket in one hand and a Friendly’s Coffee Milkshake in the other. A perfect day would end with a piece of blueberry pie. The time she spent with family and friends, both in person and on the phone, was precious time for her.

Wendy is survived by her two sons, Jay Walsh and his partner, Marie Markovic, of California, and Andy Walsh and his wife, Tracey, of Alabama; their two daughters, Riley and Shay, of Alabama, as well as son-in-law Bailey; her sister, Kim Butler ’64, of Branford, Connecticut; her sister Laurie Foley ’65, of Northampton; and her three children, Jennifer, Christopher ’93 and Liz ’94 and her husband Luis and son, Luca. In addition, she leaves Christopher’s daughter, Isla (the newest member of the family at one years old), and Ellie Gottschalk, Jennifer’s daughter. Wendy was predeceased by her beloved cat Casper. She adored all of them.

Rest in peace, dear Wendy. You will be sorely missed.

In lieu of flowers, please go read a poem today.

Virginia Jane Duys, 91, of Shelton, Connecticut (formerly of Hollywood, SC and Wilton, CT) passed away peacefully in her home, November 23, 2024, after a brief illness.

She was preceded in death by her husband Henry M. Duys Jr. “Bimmy”, whom she married in 1971; her stepson Noah O. Duys; her sister Cornelia Miller, brother William van den Toorn, and her first husband Robin Nauta. She is survived by her brother Pieter van den Toorn (Catherine) and sister-in-law Susan van den Toorn; two children from her first marriage: Pieter Nauta (Elaine) of Purcellville, VA and Jacqueline Nauta-DeBlois (Don) of Trumbull; and two stepchildren: Lizabeth Lewellen (Quinton) of Harrison, ID, and Henry M. Duys III (Susan) of Brewster, NY; six grandchildren: Jessica Durie (Alex), Robin Fiftal (Jeremy), Mark Nauta, Melanie Salata, Joe Salata, Sloane Duys; and her great-granddaughter Kaylen Fiftal.

Virginia was born to Dutch parents on August 22, 1933 in Amsterdam, Netherlands, but grew up alternating between the US and Holland while her father served as the Director of the Holland America Line. She immigrated to the US and became a US citizen in the 1950s.

Virginia was the guiding light of her family. A devoted wife and loving mother/stepmother to her blended family of five children; she would always say that being a mom was all she ever wanted to be, and it gave her so much joy. This combined family was her life. She and Bimmy were active residents of Wilton, CT; owned and ran Stewart Flowers in Wilton Center for 10 years, then retired to SC where they became part of an extraordinary network of close friends who they loved like family. She was the mom everyone wanted to have and was always full of love and laughter, especially love for her family and those closest to her. Everyone she knew was better for knowing her, and her light will live on in so many ways. She will be missed always and forever in our hearts.

A celebration of Virginia’s life will be held later when the family plans to inter her along with Bimmy. The family would like to thank the many professional care givers at Brightview Senior Living of Shelton, Constellation Hospice, and Harmony Home Healthcare for all they did to make Virginia’s life so comfortable in her last weeks. If you would like to honor Virginia, please donate in her honor to her favorite charity, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

It is with a sorrowful heart that the Linda S. Maynard family announces the loss of our matriarch. After decades of managing and coping with various chronic health conditions, Linda passed away unexpectedly during a brief hospitalization on Thursday, December 5, 2024.

Linda was born June 4, 1944, in Scarsdale, NY to Lewis and Jane Stanton. She was also raised by her step-father, Robert Rannow. Growing up in Scarsdale, Linda participated in various sports and community activities. She was known by many as “Sticky Stanton” for her field hockey skills.

She moved to Larchmont, NY in 1959 and attended high school at Northampton School for girls in Northampton, MA and graduated in 1962. She attended the University of Iowa through her sophomore year; then transferred to Burdette College in Boston, MA and graduated in 1966.

Linda moved to San Francisco, CA for three years and returned to the Upper Valley, residing in Hanover, NH in 1969 where she met Frank C. Maynard at the pharmacy. They married on September 30, 1973. They were married for 46 years until Frank passed away in 2019. Frank was her world. She was dedicated to Frank despite his last several years with dementia.

Linda worked at Kiewit Computation Center at Dartmouth College from 1973-1983 and transitioned to work at Snelling and Snelling in West Lebanon, NH from 1983-1985. She eventually retired for health reasons, and to be present for her family. She helped Frank exclusively with Newton Manufacturing Company, a specialty advertising business that was worked out of their home.

Linda was heavily involved at the West Lebanon Congregational Church where she attended for 50 years. She was a dedicated trustee, served as the head of stewardship, chairman of the minister search committee and sang in the church choir. She was also involved in women’s fellowship.

Linda enjoyed spending 10+ years of her time at the local CCBA Witherell Recreation Center taking fitness and water aerobic classes. She was a longtime member of an Upper Valley women’s bowling league, in addition to the Red Hat Society/Uptown Girls with whom she enjoyed monthly gatherings for the past 22 years. These women were special to her and something she looked forward to. Linda was involved in all of these enjoyable activities and service projects despite chronic health conditions.

Linda enjoyed playing golf in her earlier years with her family and frequently visited Pinehurst, NC. She enjoyed taking walks, watching golf, professional tennis and UNC college basketball on television. She was an avid player of scrabble, backgammon and spent hours completing puzzles. She was abundantly supportive and proud of her two children. Enjoyed following their professional endeavors and spending time with grandchildren during visits up north and down south. She especially looked forward to the last 13 years for an annual week long family gathering in the Outer Banks of NC.

Since 2020, and the decline of her health, Linda has benefited from the assistance and support of devoted caregivers. Serving various roles and companionship over the years to help optimize her quality of life.

Linda is survived by her two children, Frank Maynard III (Sarah) of Durham, NC and Dr. Cynthia Ward (Chris) of Roswell, GA; sister-in-law, Catherine Maynard of Randolph, VT; and four grandchildren Laney (17), Riley (14), Logan (12) and Finn (4). She was preceded in death by her father, mother and step-father; sister, Beth Bartlett; brother, Freddy Stanton and beloved husband, Frank C. Maynard, Jr.

A memorial service and funeral will be held at a later time in the spring. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the West Lebanon Congregational Church at 18 Maple Street, West Lebanon, NH 03784.

The family is very grateful and appreciative for the love and attention that the staff at Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center and Fresenius Kidney Care provided to Linda over the years of her life.

Known to many as resilient and spunky, Linda will be greatly missed.

Katharine Lattimore Young McCaw walked into her Savior’s arms May 29, 2024. She was born in New York City, New York, on March 18, 1930, to Alleyne and George Young.
In 1946 she graduated from Northampton School for Girls in Northampton, Massachusetts, and enrolled in Westhampton College for Women, a part of the University of Richmond. Two years later, she transferred to Baylor University in Waco, and earned a BS in Education. While a student she was a member of the university’s water ballet team. Katharine met Mack McCaw on a blind date to a NOZE Brotherhood event at the Raleigh Hotel. It was a match! Following their graduations, they married Dec. 27, 1950. She is one of sixty-four Baylor alumni in her family, with her grandmother being the first woman elected to the Board of Trustees.
After working twenty years in Dallas, Mack bought an insurance agency in Greenville, so the family moved. Katharine then returned to college, and in twelve months she earned her Masters in Education with an emphasis in special education from East Texas State University. She taught at Greenville High School, as well as Paris Junior College when it was located in the
Henson building on Lee Street. Leaving the classroom, she worked for MHMR, placing and supervising clients in their jobs. Then she managed a showroom at the World Trade Center in Dallas for several years.
When she finally retired, she turned her attention to the community; she was an organizing member of the local American Association of University Women, always chairing the scholarship committee; the Audie Murphy/Cotton Museum; the Edward Buckley Chapter, DAR; and the Cotton Patch Quilt Guild, Cotton Strippers, and Sunbonnet Sues quilt circles. She was also an active member of the Garden Study Club, Rejebian Book Review Club,
and Kavanaugh United Methodist Church.
Her husband, Mack, preceded her in death in 1985. Katharine is survived by her sister, Jean Harrison ’52 of Pennsylvania, as well as four children and their spouses: Bill and LaVonne McCaw, Alleyne and Bill Coleman, Kelly and Ron Greiner, and Mary McCaw; plus ten grandchildren and seventeen great-grandchildren.
The Lord calls us to serve Him, and she certainly did. Not only did she have the spirit of hospitality, but she also quietly and unpretentiously helped those in need. She has set an example of servanthood worthy to follow: 1 Peter 4: 8-9: “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.”
A Memorial Service will be held Saturday, June 8, 2024 at 11:30am in the Lynch Funeral Service Chapel in Greenville, Texas.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials be made to the Community Service Committee of the Cotton Patch Quilt Guild, PO Box 8953, Greenville, TX 75403.

Mildred (Goldstein) Eisenstock, 94, Boynton Beach, FL, and Framingham, MA, passed peacefully Wednesday, May 29, 2024, at home in the presence of her loving family.

Millie was a devoted mother to Marc Eisenstock and his wife Debra, and Phyllis Eisenstock; grandchildren: Jordan Eisenstock, and his wife Kimberly, and Lee Eisenstock; great-grandchildren: Makenna Eisenstock, William Eisenstock, and Everly Eisenstock. She leaves her nieces and nephews: Marilyn Andrews, Stuart Goldstein, Judie Ochsner, Marjorie Berg, Janine Goldstein, Donalyn Gross and she was predeceased by her nephews Marc Goldstein and Steven Goldstein. She deeply missed the love of her life, husband, and best friend, James Eisenstock; they celebrated 63 years of marriage in Sept. 2011, just prior to his passing in 2012. They met on the tennis courts in Springfield when she was just sixteen and it was love at first sight.

Born in Springfield, MA to the late Maurice and Clara Goldstein. She was predeceased by her two older brothers, Selden Goldstein and Herbert Goldstein. She was a member of Congregation B’nai Shalom in Westborough and former member of Temple Beth El in Springfield and Temple Emanuel in Worcester.

She was a graduate of Northampton School for Girls and Briarcliff College. Millie loved her time spent at Florida Hunters Run, but most especially loved spending time on the golf course in both MA and in Florida. She was a member of Mount Pleasant Country Club in Boylston. Millie also enjoyed playing tennis, bowling, Mahjong, and Canasta. She loved the Arts and enjoyed going to the theatre. Millie loved being a kindergarten teacher prior to raising her children. Above all else, she cherished her family and the many wonderful memories they shared together.

Millie’s family founded Mass. Wholesale Drug Company. The company later merged with other wholesale drug companies and formed Spectro Industries. In 1985, McKesson Corporation acquired Spectro.

Millie was an inspiration to all with her strength, energy, generosity, and with her impeccable style. Everyone who knew her was blessed with her thoughtfulness and sense of humor. She will be deeply missed by her family and her friends.

Her family would like to extend their sincere appreciation and gratitude to her caretaker and constant companion of many years, Donna Persaud, for her continued kindness, warmth, and compassion for Millie; she was like a daughter to her.

Services will be held on Sunday, June 2nd at 10:15 AM at Beth Israel Memorial Chapel, 11115 S. Jog Road, Boynton Beach, FL followed by entombment at Eternal Light Memorial Gardens, 11520 State Road 7, Boynton Beach, FL. Memorial observance will be following the service at her Florida home from 1:00 PM through 4:00 PM.

Contributions may be made to the Maurice, Selden, and Herbert Goldstein Fund, 1160 Dickinson Street, Springfield, MA 01108, or to the charity of your choice.

Barbara Bruce Wicks passed peacefully away in her sleep on November 19, 2023. She was 94 years old.

Barbara was born on February 25, 1929 in Delhi, NY to Florence Herring Bruce, of Richmond, VA, and M. Linn Bruce ll of Delhi, NY. After her father’s death they moved to Northampton where she later attended Smith College.

She met her husband Robert Stewart Wicks while playing a game of pickup baseball in Westport Point, MA, only a few streets away from where they would spend decades of their lives together. From there she lived in Lawrenceville, NJ then Newton, MA where she worked as a secretary at St. Paul’s Church in Brookline, MA. In 1986 she moved to Westport Point with her husband to live year round.

Barbara was the mother of Robert Borden Wicks of Marlboro, MA, and Sue Sarah Wicks of Oxford, MA. She was “Gaia” to her 5 grandchildren: Elizabeth Lefrancois, Sarah Medeiros, Rebecca Slattery, Haley Wicks, and Eric Wicks. She also had 7 great-grandchildren and two great-great-granddaughters, along with two nieces, a nephew, and her late brother Linn Bruce of Putney, VT.

Barbara will be remembered as a poet, a lover of birds, an avid reader, a Quaker, an active member of her community, and a devoted friend. She was happiest while walking in the woods with her dog by her side, in her garden, or floating on the Westport River. She lived simply, surrounded by beauty.

A memorial service will be announced at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Oxfam America at Oxfamamerica.org