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Sarah Sloan Evans ’54

Sarah Sloan Evans of Duxbury, MA, passed away on February 8, 2026 after a long struggle with Alzheimer’s disease. She was 89.

Sarah was born December 14, 1936 in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania to Nora (Bossert) and Ambrose V. Sloan, a family physician. She spent her youth in Wilkes-Barre and Glen Summit, PA, and, after a brief stint in parochial school, became a day student at Wyoming Seminary in nearby Kingston, PA. A friend convinced her to transfer to the Northampton School for Girls following the untimely death of her father, whom she adored, when she was 15. After graduating in 1954, Sarah earned a B.A. from Wells College in 1959 spending her junior year abroad at the University of Edinburgh. Following a brief stint working in New York City, she joined her mother in Norfolk, VA where she became a social worker. It was there that she met her husband of 65 years, Arthur B. Evans, then serving in the U.S. Navy. After moving to Duxbury in 1967, Sarah pursued a M.S.W. degree from Simmons College and worked as a psychiatric social worker at the Mayflower Mental Health Center in Plymouth. With an eye for detail and an insistence on precision, she transitioned into book publishing and did freelance writing, copy-editing, and production work for various firms. She later brought these skills to bear on her passion for historic homes, evident in the careful preservation of her 1850s house in Duxbury. While living with Arthur in Detroit in the 1990’s, Sarah was the principal author of the nomination for Lafayette Park, a mixed-use urban development project designed by Meis van der Rohe, to be listed on the National Register of Historic Places. When she and Arthur returned to Duxbury in 2002, she researched, wrote, and published a local history book titled Ashdod: The Other Side of Duxbury in 2016.

Sarah had a passion for travel, and she and Arthur visited many countries in Europe as well as Israel, Australia, and New Zealand. She also enjoyed swimming, gardening and especially doing the daily NYT crossword puzzle. She would complete the Sunday puzzle in ink and in record time, unmatched by any who dared to challenge her. Sarah and Arthur’s home in Ashdod has always been known fondly as “Sarah’s Folly,” the family’s favorite place for gatherings of all kinds: dinners large and small, political rallies, garden parties, graduations, and weddings to name a few. Sarah is remembered by all – her family, her friends and their children, and the many friends of her daughters and their children – for the generosity, gracefulness, and welcoming spirit she brought to these events.

Sarah is survived by her husband, Arthur, of Duxbury, her three daughters Catherine Evans (Lee Andrews) of Sydney, Australia, Gwen Evans-Sneeden (Ralph) of Exeter, NH, Deirdre Caldarone (Christopher) of Duxbury and New York City, a sister, Nancy Sarkesian of Auburn, CA, and eight adored grandchildren: Jacob Sneeden (Jenny), Madeleine Page (Tyler), Lindsay Caldarone (Jesse Evensky), Evan Andrews (Lauren Bauer), Sam Caldarone, Calan Andrews, Eliza Sneeden (Jamie Drayton), and Kate Caldarone, as well as four great grandchildren (Jackson and Arthur Sneeden, Owen Page, and Lionel Evensky), and nine nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her sister, Elaine Matter, her brother, James Sloan, and her cousin and fellow Duxburyite, Becky Tonrey.

The family wishes to extend its gratitude to the staff at South Shore Hospital and Pat Roche Hospice Home for their support and attentive care. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to either institution, or to Wyoming Seminary. A Celebration of Life in Sarah’s honor will be held this summer

Denise D. Wayne ’70

Denise Deborah Wayne was born in Northampton, MA on March 19, 1952 to Frank D. Wayne and Lucille Ruth Wayne. Denise attended the Northampton School for Girls and went on to study English at UMass Amherst and later graduating from Montana State University.

Denise built a meaningful and impactful career as a mortgage lender. Over the years, she proudly helped thousands of individuals and families achieve the dream of homeownership. She understood that a home was more than a financial decision—it was the foundation of a life.

Denise loved the outdoors and loved to travel. She cherished the memories of sneaking away from work to meet up with her children on the slopes at Big Sky, cross-country skiing at Lone Mountain Ranch, camping and fishing along the Madison River, and taking restorative “mental health days” at the beach with her kids. Later in life she had the pleasure of traveling throughout Europe with her son and his family and watching her grandchildren at swim meets throughout the country. These moments brought her great happiness.

Above all else, Denise loved her family. Her children and grandchildren were the center of her world, and her love for them was deep, unwavering, and unconditional. She was a devoted mother and grandmother whose presence will be profoundly missed.

Later in life, Denise met Tony Palano and together they shared many adventures and traveled the world. Denise introduced Tony to her love of hiking and the outdoors. Tony liked to joke that he loved to “hike to the front door of the Marriott,” a line that perfectly captured their shared humor and the joy they found in experiencing life together.

She is survived by her daughter, Sara (Tim) Gram; grandchildren, Will and Georgia Gram of Bozeman, MT; her son Karl (Jennifer) Weidhaas; granddaughter, Elizabeth Weidhaas of Salt Lake City, UT; the love of her life and partner, Tony Palano of Bradenton, FL; and a wealth of extended family and friends in New England, Montana and Florida. She will be missed by all those privileged to know her.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, February 20th from 11 to 1 pm at Robert Toale & Sons at Lakewood Ranch.

In lieu of flowers please consider making donations to: Moffit Cancer Center Ovarian Cancer Research, 12902 USF Magnolia Drive, Tampa, FL 33612 or Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance, PO Box 32141, New York, NY 10087-2141

Sheila (Popkin) Budnick ’49

Sheila Budnick died on February 5, 2026 in Jupiter, FL at the age of 94.

Born Sheila May Popkin in Springfield, MA, the daughter of Gertrude and Jacob Popkin, she resided in Longmeadow, MA until 1993 when she and her husband Alan Budnick moved to Juno Beach, FL. They also had a residence in New London, CT.

She was a graduate of Northampton School for Girls and attended Wells College and Brandeis University. She and her husband Alan were fundraisers and construction coordinators for the former Heritage Academy building in Longmeadow. They were both heavily committed to many philanthropic endeavors in the local Jewish community as well as national and international causes. She was an active fundraiser for former Senator Henry “Scoop” Jackson who was a family friend. From 1970-1980 she was personally involved in extricating emigrants out of the Soviet Union and integrating them into American society, working closely with Senator Ted Kennedy’s office. She served as PTA president at Heritage Academy and was chairperson of the United Jewish Welfare Fund Women’s Division in 1971 and 1973. For 10 years she also managed her father’s thoroughbred racing stable. An avid gardener, she was responsible for landscaping at her FL condo in addition to being secretary of the Board of Directors and liaison to the town of Juno Beach.

In her spare time she indulged in painting, composing rhymes, power walking, cooking and enjoying time with her grandchildren.

She is predeceased by Alan, her beloved husband of 50 years, and her daughter Susan Budnick. She leaves her son Adam and his wife Heather of New Canaan, CT, grandchildren Alexandra and Maxwell and beloved cousins descended from the Popkin families.

To honor Sheila’s dedication to Jewish causes, the family welcomes donations to the Popkin and Budnick Family Philanthropic Fund at the Jewish Endowment Foundation and Rachel’s Table.

Sara Strait Egan ’84

Sara Strait Egan passed away on August 8th, 2024, with her family by her side, after a nearly two year battle with cancer. She was preceded in death by her husband, Bradley Charles Egan, who passed away on April 29th, 2022, at their home in Madison, CT.

Sara was born on September 20th, 1965, to Charles “Sandy” Strait and Joan Sommer (Strait) Kratky, and was raised in Fairfield, CT with her older siblings, Don and Jody. Sara attended Fairfield University for two years before transferring to Skidmore College, where she majored in English. After graduating in 1988, she worked in various editing roles for publications and magazines in CT.

Brad was born on December 11th, 1959, to Paul and Ruth Egan, and was raised primarily in Norwalk, CT and Wilmington, DE with his older sister Sara. Brad attended Connecticut College, where he played on the hockey and tennis teams, as well as spent a year studying abroad in England. He graduated in 1982 with a degree in Economics and Political Science, and embarked on a successful career in management consulting, commercial real estate lending, and real estate development.

Brad and Sara were introduced by mutual friends in the summer of 1987 and started dating long distance, with Sara finishing up school at Skidmore before she moved to Stamford, CT after graduating. Brad proposed on the rocks in Rowayton, CT in December 1989, and they were married in Westport, CT on September 29th, 1990. They had their first son, Kyle, in 1993, and moved to Madison, CT a couple of years later, where Blake was born in 1996. They loved the town of Madison and their neighborhood, instantly making lifelong friends. They were very active in their community, including as local business owners, being involved in Madison Little League, and helping to organize the annual neighborhood charity golf tournament. Brad loved coaching the boys’ Little League teams, and when Blake and Kyle later went on to play soccer, tennis, baseball, and football, Brad and Sara never missed a game. They were immensely proud of their sons and found great joy in the boys’ accomplishments through sports, school, and in their careers.

Brad and Sara were not just partners but best friends for their nearly 32 years of marriage. They made each other laugh and found entertainment in the little, everyday things. Together they enjoyed tennis, skiing, reading, spending time at the beach, cooking new recipes for their family, walks with their dogs, and spending summers with their family in Maine. They had so much fun together, and brought the same infectious joy to everyone around them.

Brad had a quick wit and sharp mind, assessing any situation quickly and accurately and delivering hilarious one-liners. He was confident and self-assured, and was the life of every party. He had a great mind for real estate, and found success in commercial real estate, flipping houses, and owning and running Shoreline Modular Homes in Madison. Throughout his career, he always put his family first and prioritized spending time with them over his work.

Sara was loving, patient, and kind, and lit up every room with her bright and gentle spirit. She was the best cook, whether it was Eggs Benedict every Easter and Christmas morning, or lobster dinners for birthdays spent in Maine. She adored all animals, especially her four Springer Spaniels throughout her life: Freckles, Cocoa, Bailey, and Colby. Following Brad’s sudden passing and her cancer diagnosis just 5 months later, she showed incredible strength and tenacity in the face of unimaginably painful circumstances and fought her cancer until the very end.

Above all, Brad and Sara loved their family unconditionally and devoted their lives to each other and their sons. They will be endlessly missed by Kyle, Blake, Sara’s mother Joan, stepmother Agnes, sister Jody, brother Don, Don’s wife Debbie and children, Brad’s sister Sara, Kyle’s wife Laura, Blake’s girlfriend Emily, their beloved Springer Spaniel Colby, and countless friends and neighbors.

Memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society Relatives and friends are invited to attend Brad and Sara’s memorial service on Saturday, September 14th, 2024, at 11:00 am at St. Margaret Church, 24 Academy Street, Madison, CT 06443.

Brian W. Bourque ’90

Brian W. Bourque, 53, of West Springfield, MA, died unexpectedly, surrounded by his family, Monday night, January 26, 2026, after complications during surgery.

Brian was born in Springfield, the son of Wilfrid J. and Cindy (Sutter) Bourque Jr. and has lived in West Springfield his entire life. He was a 1990 graduate of the Williston Northampton School and was the vice-president of Cardinal Homes of West Springfield. A communicant of St. Thomas the Apostle Church. Brian loved the outdoors and was an avid hunter and fisherman. He also loved spending time at the Cape.

Besides his parents, he leaves two daughters Madelyn M. and Claire M. Bourque and their mother Katie Bourque: his sisters Lisa Pellegrini and Amy Bourque ’93 and her fiancé Steve Scott and nieces and nephews Abby Bourque, Andrew and Nathan Pellegrini and Max Schaetzer.

Visiting hours will be held at the West Springfield Curran-Jones Funeral Home Thursday, February 5th starting at 10:30am and concluding with a funeral home service at noon followed by burial in St. Thomas Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Thomas the Apostle annual fund, 75 Pine Street,West Springfield, MA 01089 or the Deer Hill Rod & Gun Club, 225 Porter Hill Road, Cummington, MA 01026.

Kamel R. Hassan ’54

Kamel Robert Hassan, 89, passed away on January 22, 2026, after a brief stay at the Hospice at the Fisher Home in Amherst, MA.

A lifelong resident of Amherst, Bob attended Williston Academy in Easthampton, MA and was a proud 1958 graduate of The College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA, as evidenced by the vast amount of purple and white clothing he accumulated, wore, and gave as gifts for most of his life. After graduation, Bob spent a year on active duty in the United States Army Reserve.

Most of Bob’s working career, over 50 years, was spent as the owner-manager of Kamel Hassan’s Barn in Amherst. Bob gradually took the business over from his parents, Kamel and Margaret Hassan.

During his decades of running the store, Bob worked with Jamie Mullins of Amherst and had a close, nurturing relationship with Jamie and his sister, Amy. Bob planned for Jamie to take over the business when Bob retired. Jamie died unexpectedly in 2009 and the time after his passing was a difficult period in Bob’s life.

Bob enjoyed golf and was president of the Amherst Golf Club in 1975 and 1976. He enjoyed music, mostly the jazz of his youth. Among his favorite musicians were Louis Armstrong, Louis Prima, and Eddie Condon. Bob liked to travel and favorite destinations were Cape Cod, Las Vegas, and Dataw, South Carolina. For the last ten years of his life, Bob spent most of his time in Newport, Vermont and enjoyed the natural beauty offered by the shores of Lake Memphremagog and the surrounding area.

Bob is survived by his sister Margaret of Richmond, VA and his brother Michael of Sarasota, FL. Bob also leaves behind many nieces and nephews and grandnieces and grandnephews, and close friends, too many to list here. He will live on in their hearts as well as in those of all who knew him.

A “Celebration of Life” event will be held at the Amherst Golf Club at 2:00 pm on May 9, 2026.

Kelly (McCormack) Houseman ’86

May 21, 1967 — December 20, 2025

Kelly K. Houseman (nee McCormack), 58, of Buffalo, NY, entered into rest on December 20, 2025.

Beloved wife of David Houseman, and formerly Paul Higgins Jr.; devoted mother of Patrick Higgins (Brittney Fahnestock); stepmother of Matthew and Daniel Houseman; loving daughter of Corley (nee McDonald) Gordon and the late Maxwell L. McCormack Jr.; daughter-in-law of Richard and Judy Houseman; former daughter-in-law of Carolyn Higgins and the late Paul Higgins Sr.; dear sister of Patty (Brian) Elwell, Patrick (Jackie) McCormack; sister-in-law of Mark Higgins, Katherine (Brian) Huck, Kevin (Kimberly) Higgins, and Christopher (Michelle) Higgins; adored aunt of Jake (Jamie) Elwell, Madeline Elwell (Jacob Smith), Maxwell McCormack, Connor, Blake, Tyler Huck, Russell, Ryan, Justin, Stephen, and Timothy Higgins; special friend of Ian Leach. Also survived by cousins, family, and friends.

Kelly earned a degree in Criminal Justice from Rochester Institute of Technology and was an active goalie for the women’s hockey team. She excelled as a paralegal for various Buffalo Law Firms, before finding rewarding work as a Human Resource Assistant for Belmont Housing Resources for WNY.

A Celebration of Life will be celebrated at a time convenient to the family.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Kelly’s memory may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care Buffalo at www.hospicebuffalo.com

Edward H. Foster ’61

Edward Halsey Foster, poet, publisher, and scholar, died peacefully on January 12, 2026, in the company of his family at Ferncliff Nursing Home in Rhinebeck, NY. He was 83.

Foster was born December 12, 1942 in Northampton, MA. The son of Edward Clark Foster and Edith Derosia Foster, he spent his early years in Williamsburg, MA, and attended Williston Academy, graduating in 1961. Eager to move to New York City and experience the literary scene of the 1960s, he attended Columbia University, receiving his BA in 1965 and his PhD in American Studies in 1970. While still in graduate school, Foster began teaching at Stevens Institute of Technology where he achieved the rank of full professor and taught for more than 50 years. While at Stevens, Foster served as Dean and created the College of Arts and Sciences.

With grants from the National Endowment for the Arts, the National Endowment for the Humanities, and NJ State Council on the Arts, he established a multiyear Festival of NJ Poets, welcoming Allen Ginsberg, Amiri Baraka, and John Ciardi among others.

He was a Fulbright professor at Haceteppe University in Ankara in 1978-79 and Istanbul University in 1985-86 and later a visiting lecturer at Beykent University, all in Turkey. He also pioneered faculty exchanges with universities in Turkey and Russia, and lectured widely on American Studies and poetry at universities around the world.

Foster authored more than 40 volumes of poetry and criticism. Eventually his passion for poetry led him to create Talisman: A Journal of Contemporary Poetry and Poetics. The journal ran from 1988 to 2014 in print and then continued online. Initially each issue was devoted to a single poet; Alice Notley was the first. Later volumes were more wide-ranging and inclusive, but always with the goal that each “poet could be read free of any single poetic tradition.”

He went on to found Talisman House Publishers, which published anthologies, poetry, criticism and selected works by various authors reflecting movements such as New York School, Beats, Black Mountain, San Francisco Renaissance, and Boston Occult, among others. Gay writers and international literature were also featured. Poets including William Bronk, Simon Pettet, Gustaf Sobin, Burt Kimmelman, Elinor Nauen, Joseph Donahue and Timothy Liu graced the covers. Foster was widely considered to be one of the most important independent publishers of avant-garde poetry.

On retirement from academia, Ed moved to Northfield, MA, where he enjoyed hiking, gardening, and hosting poets and artists at literary weekends. He founded the Pioneer Valley Poetry Project with a group of friends, organizing readings and continuing his commitment to contemporary poetry and poetics. Ed enjoyed international travel throughout his life, including trips to Iceland, Norway, and Sweden with his children and grandchildren, and many trips to Turkey with family and friends.

Foster is survived by his brother, Roy Foster of Fort Lauderdale, FL; his former wife, Elaine Dunphy Foster of Jersey City, NJ; his daughter, Katherine Hearn Foster, of NYC; his son, John Clark Foster (Johanna Hagelthorn) of Saugerties, NY; grandchildren Sophia (Taylor Foster) of Jersey City, NJ, Irene of Washington, D.C., Ian of Saugerties, NY.

A private service is planned for the family.

Memorial contributions can be made to The Nature Conservancy, The Poetry Project, or Alzheimer’s Foundation of America.

Edward F. Pytka Jr. ’71

Edward F. Pytka Jr., 71, of Charlestown, Rhode Island, passed away peacefully on Monday, December 2, 2024.

Born on July 15, 1953, in Palmer, Ed grew up in Three Rivers, Massachusetts. He was the beloved son of the late Edward and Catherine (Sullivan) Pytka and shared a special bond with his sister, Ellen-Louise Pytka.

A proud member of Williston Academy Class of 1971, Ed excelled as an athlete in football and hockey and maintained a lifelong connection with his alumni community. He went on to attend Northeastern University and graduated from Western New England University in 1976, embarking on a distinguished career in finance.

Ed held prominent leadership roles throughout his illustrious career, including serving as CFO of Timex and Executive VP of Li & Fung. His professional journey led him to Simsbury, Connecticut, where he and his family created a home filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories.

Ed was known for his humor, warmth, and love for life. He cherished summers on Cape Cod, where he worked as a lifeguard and developed a lifelong love for the beach. An avid gardener, he found joy in cultivating plants and approached golf with enthusiasm and camaraderie, regardless of his skill level.

He was a devoted husband to his late wife, Susan Grandy Pytka, and a loving father and grandfather. He is survived by his children and their families: Sarah (Ryan) Percival of Old Saybrook, Connecticut, and their children Carson, Wesley, and Chase. Zachary (Anne) Pytka of North Stonington, Connecticut, and their children Sawyer and Bodie.Catherine (Kenny) Holtz of Big Sky, Montana, and their children Finley, Susan, and Hadley.

Above all, Ed was a loyal friend, a loving father, and proud grandfather. Ed will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by his family, friends, and all who were fortunate to share in his remarkable journey.

A celebration of Ed’s life will be held at a later date.

Mary Ellen (Keogh) Osgood ’59

Mary Ellen (Keogh) Osgood, of North Andover, Massachusetts, passed away, January 3, 2026, surrounded by those closest to her.

Born on June 11, 1941, in Northampton, Massachusetts, Mary Ellen was the daughter of the late Arthur Connor Keogh and Margaret (Kennedy) Keogh. She grew up in Northampton adjacent to the Smith College campus and attended Northampton School for Girls (now Williston Northampton School). While living in the Pioneer Valley, Mary Ellen met and married her first husband, Robert Allan Williams, and moved to Boston. In 1965, they moved to North Andover with their young daughter. In 1971, Mary Ellen married Gayton Osgood, and they enjoyed a 32 year marriage until Gayton’s death, in 2003.

Building her resume over the years, Mary Ellen worked first in human resources and then as the assistant director for the Andover Recreation Department. In the mid-1970s, she enrolled in classes at Merrimack College and graduated summa cum laude with a degree in history and a teaching certificate in hand. After turns working for several social service agencies, Mary Ellen began a 23-year career teaching in the history department at North Andover High School. During the 1970s, Mary Ellen wrote a series of oral histories for the North Andover Citizen and for inclusion in the Cochichewick Chronicles. Later, the North Andover Improvement Society published some of these, plus some new entries, in a small book entitled “Looking Back – North Andover People and Places.”

Mary Ellen served on the Stevens Memorial Library Board of Trustees for 22 years. She was Chair and a member of the building committee that researched designs, championed blueprints, and helped to procure funding for the library addition and renovation dedicated in 1995. Mary Ellen was passionate about books, history, art and travel. With close friends, she travelled extensively over the years throughout Europe, to Africa, to China, Thailand, and Cambodia, Mexico and across the Untied States. She was known for mentoring young students, volunteering at Bread & Roses, Lawrence General Hospital, and the Stevens Memorial Library book sales, serving as a registrar at Town elections and tutoring older adults in learning English. This last, bringing a love of books to people for the first time, was perhaps her proudest achievement.

Mary Ellen will be remembered as a devoted teacher, stalwart North Andover Citizen, and caring companion to family and close friends. She is survived by her daughter, Andrea Williams of North Andover.

Visiting Hours: A Memorial Service will be held Saturday, January 17, at 10:00 am, at The North Parish of North Andover Unitarian Universalist Church, at 190 Academy Road, in North Andover, followed by an informal reception in the public space downstairs. There will be a private Burial at Ridgewood Cemetery in the Spring.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to either Friends of the Stevens Memorial Library (PO Box 992, North Andover, MA 01845 – Friendsofstevensmemlib-na.org) or the North Andover Scholarship Foundation, P.O. Box 524, North Andover, MA 01845 – Memo: Mary Ellen Osgood – https://www.nascholarship.org/donate.htm